love is an orientation

June 16, 2009

In recent years, I’ve had the opportunity to develop friendships with three different men who were trying to navigate the tension between what it meant to be gay and Christian. Each was at a different place in his story when I first got befriended him, but each story had one thing in common…living between the […]

dichotomies & hypocrisies

January 28, 2009

It’s been over four years since I sat down with Jeff for a conversation that would mark me for the better. Jeff had been in my high school ministry. Now, a few years out of high school, he was struggling with his church experiences. Jeff was always a writer, and he had written a book […]